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Post by account_disabled on Dec 27, 2023 7:54:39 GMT
Maybe an in or out group. So, if somebody is asking for help but they're part of your out group whereas if you don't identify with them then again it's more likely for the bystander for the person not to help. Now that you know, not you've learned about the bystander effect. How does??? Did that change? Victoria: Yeah, Absolutely! Absolutely! Because it's not person anymore, you know it's not like "Obviously, they don't love me" it's not one does anymore. Instead it's like, it's just.
You know how we act and how we'd react to the Phone Number Data situations and something that I actually heard it in an audio book and to me, it makes a lot of sense is that part of that bystander effect is confusion. So what this book recommends is to actually be specific. Like say, "Okay, you the one with a ponytail with a brown shirt, I need your help. This is what is happening right now and I need you to this and this." So make it really concise, really specific, really direct,
So that people is not like "Oh... well, somebody else will help or I don't know what's happening to this person, I don't know what to do." So we need to almost like direct the situation so that people don't get into that confusion state. Nhan: So that makes sense. I think that's some pretty solid advice. When I think back on that particular situation that you're in, I can't imagine that under the stress and the trauma that you're in that you have the coolness and calmness start giving orders to the people.
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